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10 Failed Attempts To Get your Wife to Make Love

So everybody has their own challenges and we each approach them on our own ways.  I want to emphasize that what I am writing about today is a very serious subject that really impacts several husbands on a daily basis.  When we first got married, we were inseparable and had a great and active sex life.  We didn’t make love every day but a week never went by without some action in the bedroom.  However, that changes after years.  We can and have gone more than a month without intimacy and that is… well frustrating to say the least.  So while you don’t have any sure-fire ways to get your wife to make love I can tell you 10 things that are highly likely to fail: 

1. Talk about a sexless marriage with her. You see the definition of a sexless marriage is little or no sex, which can mean as few as once per month over an extended period of time.   
2. Remind her of how it used to be when you were first married and couldn’t get enough of each other.  
3. Tell her it is flat-out unacceptable and that you are putting your foot down.  
4. Propose a shower together.  Sounds pretty darn good, right?  
5. Complain every night before going to sleep.  
6. Suggest lingerie every time you drive by or walk by Victorias Secret or pretty much any store that even remotely resembles a lingerie store.  I
7. Tell her you think you physically need it.  Ah, this is a great one and you can actually find some science that will back you up on this pretty easily. 
8. Get a little too close in bed every night, you will find out that spooning has its limits. 
9. Alcohol is no longer your friend as it takes your tired wife and makes her just a little more sleepy.  
10. Crying about it… I mean think about it, how is that supposed to work exactly?  

Now, while I have tried to keep this as light as I can I want to remind you that this is a fairly common and serious problem.  In fact, with the increase in both parents working fulltime jobs it is almost understandable.  The demands on our wives are pretty much beyond our comprehension most of the time (before you start whining again… even if you are a ridiculous workaholic it is not the same).  The honest approach is just to have an occasional discussion with your wife and let her know that

•  you care about her, 
• you are there for her, and 
• oh yeah sex would be greatly appreciated when she can pencil you into her busy schedule.